Saving the Church of England

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Someone wise once said to me ‘don’t go into the Church of England trying to save it, because you will die trying’. At the time I was quite taken aback as actually I think that is part of my calling, well, not to save the CofE single handedly of course, but certainly to make a difference, to be part of the future, to definitely see change happen. Not just for the sake of change, but in order to see the church grow into the future rather than wither away. Every now and then when I get really wound up by the CofE (which let’s face it for those of us working in it can be a regular occurrence) I remember that phrase and I remember how it made me feel: it made me think ‘well so be it, that’s no reason not to try’. (And I should say it is not my life’s work to save the CofE, my life’s work is to tell people about Jesus).

Over the last few decades (well probably longer) there has been continual talk of the decline of the Church. Every now and then it wanes a bit and then it builds up again, usually based on someone, somewhere mouthing off about the church. Either way, it is true, the CofE as we know it, is in decline and if we want to see it in our future then we need to act. This is not a surprise of course, people have been saying it for years, but in recent times the pressure has certainly been on. 

Right now there is a lot of hope in the CofE. Certainly the appointment of Justin Welby as Archbishop of Canterbury has pleased many both in and outside the church. There are lots of exciting things going on and people in high places talking of the future. However… in the last 20 years or so there has been a lot of talk, but not enough action, and not enough money put where the mouth is. And there has been a lot of people sticking their heads in the sand. There have been some fantastic ideas but no backing. Pioneer Ministry is a prime example – fantastic idea, training people to actively get out there and do new things, thinking of new forms of church – exactly what we need if we want to survive – and yet there are not enough funded places for Pioneer Ministers, hardly any in fact.

Of course it is not just about pioneering new things, a recent (and excellent) report, ‘From Anecdote to Evidence‘ highlighted the fact that growing churches are not necessarily new ones, although they did feature a lot, but they are places that are committed to what they do and know exactly what their style is.

This week Bishop Julian Henderson said outright that we need radical change. Archbishop Cranmer’s blog commented on this: 

“Bishop Julian is right to focus on the young, but the real job is to convince churches that they seriously need to take a long hard look at what church is and should be. Unless a church fully understands the need for mission to be part of its culture and is actually willing to do something about it, then the battle has already been lost.”

He also goes on to talk about how obsessed we are with Sunday services and how we need to get beyond that. It is an excellent post so do go over and read it. 

I really hope that this increase of talk about the future is the start of something new and not just talk. We have seen enough of that with not enough action. The danger is though, that we are essentially still a democratic church. We saw with the vote for women Bishops, that initially it was scuppered by the ‘lay’ vote – i.e: the people in the pews. The media speculated with “quotes” from Justin Welby apparently saying if need be he would force it through or even change the way Synod worked. Whether they were accurate or not remains to be seen but thankfully it wasn’t necessary and we are well on the way to seeing women in mitres in this country. But it does go to show that if we want to see change we need to get the wider congregation on side. I can think of countless conversations I’ve had with people frustrated by traditionalists digging in their heels and refusing to make change, even in some cases at the detriment or demise of their own churches.

And I would like to say, as I have said countless times before, I am not anti-tradition, in fact I’m all for difference, after all God made us all differently and it makes sense that we would meet with him or want to worship him in different ways. I’m not saying we need to turn every church into an all singing all dancing ‘show’, not at all. But we do need to be open to change, open to trying some different things to reach people who are not being reached.  
Today on the way home from church I had to pop to the supermarket (Lord, forgive me!). As I drove in, I was amazed at how busy the car park was – busier than at any other time I have been in. Sunday morning and Tesco was heaving, all tills open, even the self serve checkouts (an invention I’m sure put into place to drive us all round the twist) had big queues. That says it all really. We are no longer a nation where Sundays are sacred. They are just another day. Tesco is more popular than church. So what does that tell us? Well it says to me that if we want to see people meeting Jesus, it we want to see the church continuing to play a part in our society, then we have to think differently about what that means. We cannot sit comfortably in our pews (or less comfortably on plastic stackable chairs) on a Sunday morning and be happy with what we are doing. We have to do something different…


As always, I’d love to know others thoughts so do comment below…

Encouraging the Spirituality of Children

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So last weekend at Vicar School we had some excellent teaching on stages of development and on stages of faith development. I was really fascinated by the teaching on children’s spirituality and how open they are to things of a spiritual nature. Open that is until we shut them down.

(and when I talk of spirituality, we had a whole discussion on what that means to different people, but essentially I mean here, in referring to matters of a spiritual nature, things that are outside of this world, seeking something outside of ourselves)

We learn from a very early age what we share with others and if the response is negative we learn very quickly not to share that again. Even as an adult I am careful when I share my own beliefs. I mean, I am a natural evangelist so I talk about Jesus all the time, but when it comes to things of a spiritual nature, for example, believing God can heal through the Holy Spirit or that I can feel God or in referring to ‘spiritual warfare’ then I test the waters first, because let’s face it can all sound a bit bonkers. And none of us want people to think we are bonkers do we, because then people won’t listen to the message we have to share…

So as children, it doesn’t take much for them to be shut down and yet research shows that an openness to spirituality is far more evident in children. In fact one research study showed that 50% of people have had a ‘spiritual experience’ and it mostly happens in childhood. 

I like to think that in this house we are pretty open to hearing from our kids on spiritual matters, in fact we try and encourage it, encourage them to be open about it. But even then, this week I was telling my youngest about the stuff I had been learning last weekend and she told me an example of someone at school (she’s just 8 by the way) whose friends thought she was lying because of something she said she had seen. Even at 8, they question things, even at 8, they learn to keep quiet, even at 8 they are wary of who to talk to. And I find that so sad. 

As parents we have a key role in listening to our children’s experiences, especially when they are younger, so often they just talk and talk don’t they, and so often we just switch off! Or if it something we are unsure about ourselves, we doubt what they say, or we try and explain it in our own adult terms.

So how can we encourage our children to be open to these things, to encountering God in real and personal ways, to understand that it is ok to have these experiences even though the world doesn’t always recognise them? and how can we be more open, listening, hearing…

That’s something that I really want to do with my own children. As I said we are pretty open and we have a once a week bible or prayer session with them, where we do different things or activities. In the past some of the best times we have had have been just waiting on God, giving them pen and paper and seeing what they feel God is saying. They have had amazing words and pictures that are way beyond their level of understanding. They have had words of knowledge for people who are really struggling and have spoken so directly into the situation without really knowing anything about it.

Sometimes we just have to allow them to be open, to listen, to hear and to see without questioning.

I would love to hear others experiences – have your children had spiritual experiences, seen angels, had words from God…? Or do you a have great ideas of how to encourage your children in this area? do get in touch…

Talk // Parable of the Wedding Banquet // All Age // 9/10/14

All Age talk from Hurst College Chapel Prep School Service
 
The parable of the wedding
banquet
22 Jesus spoke to them again in
parables, saying: “The kingdom of heaven is like a king who prepared a
wedding banquet for his son. He sent his servants to those who had been invited to
the banquet to tell them to come, but they refused to come.
“Then he sent some more servants and said, ‘Tell those
who have been invited that I have prepared my dinner: My oxen and fattened
cattle have been butchered, and everything is ready. Come to the wedding
banquet.’
“But they paid no attention and went off—one to his
field, another to his business. The rest seized his servants,
mistreated them and killed them. The king was enraged. He sent his
army and destroyed those murderers and burned their city.
“Then he said to his servants, ‘The wedding banquet is
ready, but those I invited did not deserve to come. So go to the street corners and
invite to the banquet anyone you find.’ 10 So the servants went out into the
streets and gathered all the people they could find, the bad as well as the
good, and the wedding hall was filled with guests.
11 “But when the king came in to see the guests, he
noticed a man there who was not wearing wedding clothes. 12 He asked, ‘How did you get in here
without wedding clothes, friend?’ The man was speechless.
13 “Then the king told the attendants, ‘Tie him hand and
foot, and throw him outside, into the darkness, where there will be weeping and
gnashing of teeth.’
14 “For many are invited, but few are chosen.”

 

 

Intro to me
So I thought Id better just
introduce myself – as you heard my name is Jules. And I expect some of you will
recognise me because I have 2 kids here in the prep school. But I also work for
a church in Burgess Hill called The Point Church and I’m actually training to
be a Vicar in the Church of England. Which is why I am here because I need to
get some practice in speaking and helping in services in places like this. So
that’s me…
So we’re going to look at the
Gospel passage we just heard from Matthew which talks all about a big wedding
banquet, or party doesn’t it? So how many of you know that when you read the
bible you get two kinds of meanings, one is what we call contextual – but
really means its talking about things at the time and the other is how we can
use it today – what does it mean to us today?
So here in this passage Jesus
is talking about a wedding banquet and he would have been describing a big
Jewish wedding as it was back then, and they were pretty full on parties let me
tell you. They would spend months preparing and once it was ready they would be
huge, amazing lavish parties, the kind that everyone would want to come to. So
then, I am sure lots of you have been to big parties, so if we were going to
have a party here what might we need?
Got some bits in my bag here,
but I need some help, what might we need…
Food (crisps/ biscuts etc)
Decorations streamers / party
poppers / balloons
Nice clothes – bling –
necklace, tiara
Music – ipod/ instrument?
Drum?
Band – organist !
( see what other options they come up with)
What do you think? Is this
going to be a great party? Ok so what if this was your party and you wanted all
your friends to come – invites – we need to invite people –  who wants to be a servant and give out our
invites? (2 people)
Give out 6 invites – servants
to hand out.
(don’t open them yet)
So what happened to the
people in the passage – did they come to the party? No, not only did they say
no, they killed and ill treated the servants didn’t they.
Obviously were not going to
do that to our servants are we?! Don’t worry servants you are ok – ok so what
could we do to symbolize not wanting to come to the party?
Whose was given an invite –
stand up – ok I want you to rip them in 2 – just in half – once is enough.
Ok well the thing about our passage is its not just talking a out a
wedding banquet or a party is it? There’s a line at the beginning that tells us
– Jesus said ‘the kingdom of heaven is like a king who prepared  a banquet…
In the Isaiah
passage today it says this:
On
this mountain the Lord Almighty will prepare
  a feast of rich food for all peoples,
 a
banquet of aged wine—
    the best of meats and the finest of wines.
(ok
well we haven’t got wine and meat but were almost there)
So what this is really about is the Kingdom of Heaven – now the kingdom
of heaven doesn’t just mean the place where we want to go when we die. It means
Gods kingdom, where God is and he is all round us isn’t here, he is everywhere.
Wherever we are.
And God’s kingdom is far better than the best party in the world. I can
tell you from the moment I choose to accept Jesus into my life, my life has
been one extraordinary adventure. Not to say it is always great, it isn’t, not
to say nothing ever goes wrong of course it does, but having Jesus in your life
makes everything so much better and easier and more peaceful and more joyful…
it is a little bit like being part of a big exciting party with lots of friends
around you.
And the thing about God’s kingdom, is who is invited? What happens in our
passage – some people get invited don’t they and they don’t want to come, so
the king sends out the servants to invite everyone. It says ‘ all the people
they could find, good and bad…’ Everyone!!
Everyone gets invited to God’s party.  We are all, every single one of you can get to
go to this party if you want to.
So who had the invites earlier – what do they say on the front (hold up)
RSVP – what does that mean – (response from kids)
Yes you have to respond…
So imagine if you held an amazing party and no one came, no one replied none
of your friends or the people you loved – how would you feel?
I think that’s how God feels about us, he longs for us to come to his
party.
And so do we want to be people who get to go to his amazing party? Do we
rip up the invitation and push him out of our lives? Or do we want to say yes,
I want to be part of this amazing kingdom?
How could you respond to Jesus invitation if you wanted to?
Ask them and see what responses
 then:
…or you could very shortly come up and receive communion or have a
blessing, whichever you choose. Because when you come up and do that it’s a bit
like saying, you know what, I want to know more about your kingdom, I want to
know more about you in my life Jesus, I want to come to your party.
Ending..
So just remember that invitation is always open to you. And you can
accept it any time you like… and you know what Jesus would just love to have
you at his party…
Amen…

 

The Rich Fool // Talk on Giving // Sun 5th October

My talk from yesterday on The Rich Fool and relating to ‘giving’. 


Luke 12: 13-21. The Rich Fool
You can listen to the talk here
So, The Rich Fool eh? The man who stores up
his wealth and then has nothing to show for it as God arrives to demand his
life.
Nice story isn’t it?! You might think, well
that man probably worked hard for his money, for his savings, isn’t that a bit
unfair? Why shouldn’t he save up? Invest in his future even?
I don’t know about you but I think for many
of us our attitudes to money essentially are based on what we have been brought
up with. My generation I think, were encouraged to earn and to save. Anyone
remember those Natwest piggy banks – even at age 10 the more you saved, the
better the piggy you got! That was an era of significant economic growth and
the more you had in the bank (or in the barn perhaps) determined your status. People
had a desire to be ‘financially secure’, and I guess we all do still to some
extent, I think the reason so many people play the lottery is the thought that
winning such a vast sum of money could mean they never have to worry about
money ever again. Because these days jobs are becoming less and less secure,
gone are the days when you took a profession and kept it for life. Gone are the
days when a job could mean a level of security for you and your family. So
isn’t it then sensible even to store things up for the future, save up for a
rainy day, for retirement… well I’m not saying it isn’t but actually the key thing
in this passage here is not actually the act of storing it all up, but the fact
that this farmer, this ‘rich fool’ did
it with no reference to God whatsoever
.
Often when the bible uses the word ‘fool’ it really is a term used to refer to
someone, anyone whose way of life, or practices deny God. So here we have a man who ‘thought to himself’ it says in
v17. And I’ll say to myself in v19, who is focussed only on himself.
It’s not wrong to save or be sensible or even
to be rich, but when we don’t even consider God in it all, then WE ARE fools. Then we deny God, we deny
Christ. And that’s not just for the ‘rich’ by the way – whoever they are, I
mean years ago I remember playing the Game of Life’ anyone remember that – you
can still get it… the dream was to get to the Million £ house at the end.
£million could give you financial security for life! These days that standard
has changed dramatically. But anyway I digress, the point is, it doesn’t matter
how much you have, there are parables about having no money as well, in Luke 21
for example, The Widow who gave less than a penny, but Jesus says of her ‘this
poor widow has put in more than all the others… she, out of her poverty, put in
all she had to live on’
SO don’t sit there thinking well I’m not rich
so this has nothing to do with me, this is for everyone, it’s about our heart
attitude to God and allowing him into every area of our lives including our
finances.
I don’t know if any of you listen to the
Rooted podcast by Beth Redman and Pippa Gumbel. They were looking at Romans 12
this week and the first thing they started off with was that we need to hand
over everything to God. Every part of our lives… (and if you don’t get it, do,
its great and this week they featured Tim’s story too!)
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So, money. Giving. Finances. Yes we’ve got a
gift day coming up… And I’ve got to be honest when Will give me this passage
and said I want you to include giving, it’s right before our gift day, I
thought what? Thanks for that then…
Then I thought well hang on a minute ‘that’s
not really the right attitude, is it! Firstly, I love my job and I just think
it’s a complete privilege to stand up here and be speaking to you. Secondly
giving is actually a massive part of who we are as Christians and that is
certainly true for me and my family, we do believe that everything we have is a
blessing from God and it is from that place that we give back to him.
So then if all that is true, why was I
feeling anxious or worried? Well here’s the thing, I think most talks on giving
in church make people feel guilty. You end up feeling that you need to empty
your wallet into the offering basket, receipts, fluff and all. Or you go away
feeling bad that you can’t give more and that as a result God is not happy with
you Well, No! that’s not what Christian giving is about. If you are giving out
of guilt, don’t!
Christian giving is not about giving from a place of guilt. We don’t serve a God who lives to make us feel guilty, or bad or
that we’re not good enough or that we need to find more to give to him. No we
don’t serve a God like that, we serve a God of love and compassion and grace
and of course he would love us to be generous giving people but not from a place
of ‘we have to’ but from a place of ‘I love Jesus and I want to honour him, be
part of bringing in his kingdom’. Giving out of guilt is a lie! And I will not
aim to make you feel guilty about giving!
But I think people expect that, they expect
to be made to feel guilty, that they have to give and I think that’s why I was
feeling a bit pants about giving this talk today. So if I’m feeling that then
maybe some of you are too, so I thought it might be good to debunk a few church
myths about giving.
1 1.  Guilt
Obviously the first one is that
we give from a place of guilt. As I’ve said that’s a lie. But it does mean that
so often on gift days people expect to be made to feel bad and so they stay
away. It’s classic within churches that on gift days, attendance numbers are
down. So I’m going to pray that numbers are up for us! Because hopefully you
will know you will not be made to feel bad but that you can come and worship
God with the family of The Point Church – that numbers will be up because
people love this church and because they want to worship Jesus and feel part of
something, part of this church, part of this family, we are all in this
together! OK? So no bunking off!!
    2.  Talking about money is vulgar, isn’t
it! We do fit the stereotype, too British! We can’t talk about money, we don’t
like talking about it. And we certainly don’t like talking about how much we
give. But we’re just going to have to get over that! because I am going to talk
about the church spending money… even more vulgar!
So here’s the myth – that all the money given to the church goes
on
Paying staff wages/ buying kit/renting the building.
Well of course, like any church we do have
running costs. BUT We are not giving into a pot that funds salaries and kit, we
are giving into a pot that is furthering
the kingdom of God
. I know that all of us on the staff team, trustees, OLT
etc we take our positions and jobs seriously. We know we are put there in
positions of trust because of God.
None of us take that for granted, and don’t take it lightly, we are there
because we really believe that we want to see
Gods kingdom go further in Mid Sussex
, we want to be a transforming presence in Mid Sussex. And we take that
seriously.
So when we are giving to the church of course
some of it will be spent on those things (and a lot of it isn’t there are our
mission partners, the hardship fund? And others) but it is in order to see GODS
kingdom coming.
PLUS On the back of that, we also take the
way money is spent in this church very seriously. No one spends money wily
nilly. A lot of thought and prayer and discussion goes into how money is spent,
sure people would be happy to talk about that with any of you.
3. We
live in a consumer society,
don’t we? It’s the way the world is, we expect
to pay money and receive a service or an item in return.  If it’s not exactly what we want we send it back,
we ask for a discount, we don’t go back to that place again. We want instant,
easy and perfect transactions, whether it’s amazon, google, tesco we know what
we want and when we want it.
So, then isn’t church the same? Myth number 3!
there is a lot of debate about ‘consumer
church’ at the moment. What is it – are we putting on a ‘service’ for people –
not like the 9.45 service, but providing a service that people can come and
receive from // or are we creating a
space where the kingdom of God is experienced
, where people draw closer to God,
where his Kingdom can be experienced in our world. Where we can come and be in
God’s presence, where we can be a church family together.
A lot of debate about that but my opinion is
that we do not want to create an environment where we are providing a service
in which you need to give something to partake of that. You are not receiving
something from us. This (indicate the stage area) is not a transaction, it’s not buying a
ticket, not a service where you are required
to pay or give in return. When we give, of our time or our money we are doing
out of here, from the heart. We are doing it because we want to see the kingdom
of God come, we want to see this church being a transforming presence in Mid Sussex.
It’s all about from here.
Now don’t get me wrong, our church would not
run if people didn’t give time or money I’m not saying don’t do it, (will, will
be pleased to hear!) what I’m saying is it is not a requirement of coming to
this church or any  church that you have
to give in return. That is not how a relationship with God works is it?  Actually we get something in return from God for doing nothing, just for being here, we get to be friends of God we
get to receive salvation, from that all powerful, loving God for nothing. If you
heard David Cooke’s talk last weekend – he gave an example of a guy who had
just become a Christian and he was all enthusiastic –  said to him ‘what do I need to do, David’ – and
he said, you just need to relax, you don’t have
to do
anything , it is done for you.  What Jesus did on the cross was done for each
and every one of us, now that’s the only
transaction that needs to happen.
We have to accept it, receive it of course
but we don’t have to do anything to earn it.
So we don’t want to be a church that
models ourselves on a system of transactions.
oooooo
So there’s the myths debunked, can we all
rest a bit easier now? Now of all these things I’ve just mentioned, we can get
past them all in one easy way, by spending time with God. By surrendering to
Him. As I said earlier –  every part of
our lives.  If we allow him to be part of
our lives, and in all parts then we can feel free and at peace with our lives –
and with our giving. We won’t feel guilty, because if we’ve listened to God we
will know we are doing what he wants us to do. We will trust in how money is
spent here and we won’t be feeling that we are paying for a service and that’s
all we need to do.
Be rich towards God, v 21 of our passage.
oooooo
So, here we are. The Point Church, ten years
old. If you were here for any part of last weekend, you’ll know it was an
amazing celebration of all that has happened here in the last 10 years. We showed
the highlights of the last ten years video, and I watched that for the first
time on Saturday evening. And I’ve got to say I was so moved. Just to see all
the things God has done here, all the ways in which he has impacted people in
our communities, the ways in which we have seen people meet with Jesus for the
first time. It was just amazing. Praise God!!
So now we stand on the threshold of the next
ten years, or 20 or 30… and it is so exciting to start thinking about where God
is taking us next isn’t it? We have our vision ‘to be a transforming presence
in Mid Sussex’ (slide) and the strategy team is
meeting to think about exactly what that looks like but we do know that this
church feels like such an exciting place to be right now! I mean just look at
all that is going on already.
Church in a Pub (just a
year old!) is going from strength to strength, at the last one it was so packed
out, we really needed more space! People are coming along to that regularly who
would never come to church, we are out there, meeting people where they are at.
And that actually started with the Landlord asking us in! to do church in his
pub!
Willow Way
The Melting Pot Café in Hurst
launched just a few weeks ago and already there is so much excitement about
what else can be done there, there are all kind of talks going on about our
involvement there and where next. Someone said to me last week at the café,
there are people here who I never thought would come out to somewhere like
this. There are locals offering to get on board.
On top of that there is the Youth Drop In
Sessions which have also just launched and are reaching a whole group of young
people, most of whom haven’t yet experienced Jesus for themselves.
And in that area organisations are
approaching us (so many!), wanting to work with us. And we are being asked to
get involved in other things to take responsibility for things. I think that’s
because they can sense or even see the work that God is doing in that place.
So, we are already ‘pioneering authentic communities’ in Mid Sussex and there is more
of that to come, even though we haven’t got a final strategy yet – there are all
kinds of informal conversations going on,  about other areas, there are people who are
really keen to see things happening in their communities too, who want to start
new inititiatives or get us involved in theirs. I mean it’s not a case of what
should we do next but which one do we choose?! God is moving so fast right now,
it’s such a great time.
We are also already ‘engaging with and serving the people’
We are already ‘demonstrating God’s love and compassion’
In these communities, in these projects.
I guess the next step for some of these is to
openly ‘Share the good news of Jesus’
and at WW there are plans a foot for a carol service and potentially out of
that, some sort of small group for people who want to know more about Jesus. So
our Visions Statement is becoming a reality faster than any of us could ever
have dreamed!
oooooo
Now, as a church we could so easily think, we
haven’t got the money to do this, we need to hold on to it and just keep the
church going as it is. But then wouldn’t we be just like the Rich Fool,
hoarding anything we have for the future? Verse 15 of our passage says ‘a man’s
life does not consist in the abundance of his possessions’ well it’s just the
same for us as a church, this, this stuff (Stu won’t like me referring to it as
‘just stuff!) but this and what we do here, in this place, is enabling us, us
here to meet with Jesus, to become more
like him
(another of our statements)
but that’s just one of our aims isn’t it. Yes we need to meet him, know him more,
we need good teaching and time and space to worship him, but what about them
out there, those who don’t know him. If we just keep what we have within these
four walls, we will be the ones to whom God says ‘who will get what you have prepared for YOURSELF…’
What we receive in here, we need to take out
there….
oooooo
Everything we do here at The Point is founded
on a relationship with God.  It’s founded
in prayer. Jesus’s criticism of the rich man in our passage is not so much the
hoarding of his crops but the fact that it was a decision made by himself, by
himself with no thought of God.
We are not a church with one or two people
making decisions. With our leadership and staff teams, we seek God, we pray, we
consult together. Our heart, our desire is to see God breaking out in new ways
and new places across Mid Sussex. You know when we started the vision process 2
years ago we started thinking about the fact that our ‘patch’ if you like is
Mid Sussex. There were comments like, how can we reach all of Mid Sussex, we
cannot aim to reach it all, but we knew we just had to start somewhere. And yet
now, just 2 years later we have several new projects established and lots of
ideas coming through for new ones. All of a sudden God is opening doors right
across Mid Sussex. Our vision was way too small!! I once saw a guy called Angus
Buchan preach, he’s a very firey south African farmer, really animated and he
said and it has stuck with me, if your vision doesn’t scare you, its not big
enough! Any vision we can come up with ourselves is never going ton be big
enough for God and he’s showing us that already!
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So really what we are asking of you right
now, and at this gift day is do you want to be part of it? Do you want to be a
part of what God is doing through this church in Mid Sussex? Because that’s
what this is all about – us The Point Church, together, a family, reaching out
across our communities to see more of God’s kingdom.  The Chichester Diocese held their clergy
conference a few weeks ago for all the Anglican ministers across Sussex. Their
theme was ‘your Kingdom Come’. And that’s it isn’t it. Perhaps the oldest
prayer and possibly simplest prayer:  Our
Father in Heaven, Hallowed be Your Name – YOUR KINGDOM COME!
That’s what we want to see! Come on!!!
Our church has never been dull let’s face it,
but the truth is a journey with Jesus is probably the most exciting journey you
can ever be on! A year ago as a church we were in a very different place and
yet we sought God, we humbled
ourselves before him and we looked to him to guide us forward. In less than a
year he has turned this church around. I’m not sure that any of us could have
forseen what has happened in this year. Opportunities opening up, old
relationships rebuilt, new ones formed, new projects, new ideas, new teams. It
is quite amazing, staggering even, and of course, only possible through him.

As a church a year ago we stepped out and humbled
ourselves before God, we admitted the mistakes we had made and in that pain and
fear, as a church we trusted God with everything. And now look where he has
taken us. If he’s done all that in a year, well I don’t know about you but I
just cant wait to see where next!
2 years ago this church was growing smaller,
now it’s growing so fast we need to make a plan to work out what to do next!
TBH our volunteer teams were pretty much at
crisis point, now we’ve got some fantastic new team leaders and have welcomed,
new members of the point onto our teams.
2 years ago some key staff members and
trustees move on and we weren’t really sure how that would be managed. Now we
have a flourishing, thriving staff team and a great new band of trustees and
just a fantastic sense of God’s love following through them all.
2 years ago as a church we had some really
sad times, losing 3 special people in this congregation. Nothing will ever
replace the pain of that of course, but this year, we have seen healings,
prophetic words spoken and we’ve just seen the most amazing miracle in Tim’s
life, haven’t we – finding his mum after 50 years of not knowing.
Will has other ministers asking him for help, 2 secular places have asked us to
‘come and do church here’, We have made great new relationships across this
diocese and have a greater presence here, we’ve been involved in a national
Church of England Project – the OurCofE campaign and been asked to take part in
another one, and more locally we’ve got churches working together in ways they
have never done before.
And it’s all God. We are a church that has
fully surrendered to him, all parts, all pieces, and here we are.
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So here’s the question – are you part of it?
Do you want to see more of God’s kingdom here? Do you want to experience more
of Gods transforming power in your life? Do you want to be used by God for his
kingdom? If you do then get on board!
Actually that’s really what this gift day is
about, saying to you, do you want to partner with us? Do you want to be part of
The Point family vision?
So what we are asking you today is to go home
and seek God. If we are a prayerful church that wants to be led by him, fully
surrendered to him, then let’s model that in all we do. It would be very easy to turn up next week and think oh
no I haven’t had time to think about gift day, well I’ll just chuck in a
tenner. Or maybe you give monthly – you might just think, well I can just add
on a few pounds that will do. That is not what we are asking you to do! That
would be giving from guilt!
So what we’d love you all to do is go home
and seek God, pray, ask him where you fit into all of this, this new season,
this new vision, and of course it could mean lots of things, he might have a
very specific role for you, he might ask you to get on a team or get involved
and that is amazing and part of it all but specifically this week we are asking
you to pray about your giving. What is God asking of you and of your finances
right now. What is he saying to your heart? In here?
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I’ve got to be honest, the bottom line is
that there is a shortfall in our finances right now. But if as a church we just
put on a gift day to fill that hole then we are missing that mark completely. We are
putting on a gift day because we have every faith that the vision God has given
us, is exactly right for this church in this season. And if we have faith in
God, the God of the impossible, the God of miracles, if we believe that God can
do that, we have to trust him with everything, including our finances!
And if you don’t want to feel guilty, or
anxious about what the money is spent on, or not feel that you are making a
transaction, then seek God, its simple. Because if you make decisions about
your finances based on God’s guidance then you can do so in peace cant you, knowing
that you are trusting in God.
So
Here are the things I want to leave
you with, the questions I want you to think about:
–       : Are you fully surrendered to God?
Do you have an attitude of ‘being rich’ towards God?
–      :  are you going to seek God and
trust him with your giving? Go home and seek him for next weeks gift day

And :
–       : do you want to get on board with
what God is doing through this church? Do you want to see more of Gods kingdom
coming in this area? Do you want to experience more of God for yourself? Because
that is what its all about. Your kingdom come.

Amen